A space for the ones who’ve ever felt too broken, too much, or not enough.
Here, we name the ache, not to dwell in it, but to walk through it together. This isn’t about fixing you. It’s about helping you remember who you were before shame taught you to hide. Through honest reflection, guided resources, and a community of fellow travelers, we’re reclaiming our stories and discovering that we were never unlovable to begin with.
The Un[Loveable] Club was the brainchild of Tony DeGonia and Bishop R.A. Nichols, Th.D.—two individuals who have not only endured profound heartache and heartbreak, but who also carry immense compassion for others navigating similar pain. Born from personal experience and a deep love for their fellow travelers on life’s rocky roads, this space was created for those trying to figure out which truck just ran them over—once life slows down enough to process what they’ve just been through.
Inside the secure walls of this website, you’ll find a carefully curated collection of tools, reflections, and resources—each drawn from the very things that helped Tony and Rob survive their darkest seasons. Much of what’s shared is rooted in Christian Scripture, which serves as the foundation for our book, blog posts, in-person events, and our 30-day intensive recovery program. These offerings aren’t just spiritual—they’re practical, personal, and proven to help rebuild what life has broken.
Because the heart of this space is deeply personal and intentionally protected, we ask that all visitors create an account before accessing our resources.
The Un[Loveable] Club offers three membership levels — Discovery, Observation, and Introspection — so you can choose what feels right for where you are on your journey.
To get started:
Click the “Sign Up” button below to select your desired membership type.
Select the membership level that fits your needs.
Create your login and complete payment.
Once your account is confirmed, you’ll have access to the reflections, tools, and support waiting here for you.
We’re honored to hold space for your healing.